Loves & Hugs
POSTS & LETTERS TO MY SACRED REBELS ACROSS THE WORLD(MADE FROM PIXIE DUST AND MAGIC)
{Reflections of Racism} The Color of War
One of my greatest weaknesses in the race conversation is my struggle to believe this shit happens. Not because people of color are lying. They aren’t. But because I assume other people think like me. → That they actually want equality for everyone. → That they aren’t...
Be Grateful For YOU, Not Your Trauma
I’ve been thinking about the past over the past few days. And how we can’t change it. We can change our relationship to it and reclaim our power from it… from the people and spaces who took from us. (I do this work with my clients every day.) But changing history?...
A Light Bath For The Exhausted Unicorn
The world feels really heavy right now. Then again, did it ever stop feeling heavy? We’ve moved from pandemic to political unrest, to more pandemic, to the threat of a new war as Russia invades Ukraine. And it can be easy, sitting in our homes safe in America, to take...
What do you actually do, Deb?
I’ve been fielding a few questions about the magick I bring to the world and how I’m able to get the crazy-amazing breakthroughs and healing I do with my clients. So I’m going to take a moment (or several) to answer some of those questions here. And if you have any of...
Never give up! Never surrender!
I’m supposed to be on a plane right now. Flying to meet up with a couple of girlfriends who have been my best friends for almost a decade. (Which is crazy in Deb-years. I don’t usually have friends that last that long.) (Because we drift apart. Not because I murder...
Jane Austen & Brené Brown walk into a bar…
I know, I know. That sounds like the start of a terrible joke. Only there’s no punch line. Just two different women from very different time periods teaching us to validate ourselves instead of seeking approval from the outside. Which can be hard. I mean… we got...